The reason why I’m writing this post is the fact that a lot of people tend to overlook how much potential their site really has. What makes matters worse is people that I see with great potential, they just don’t want to live up to it.
First, we all start blogs for a specific purpose; whether it’s to try to make some money online, blogging for fun or simply to get your message/point across to a wide range of people that would listen.
Obviously, when we first start a blog, we see the potential within ourselves and we get so excited until… we hit that wall. Then, all of a sudden we lose confidence and then we don’t see that same type of potential we once had. And we start giving up…
But here’s the thing, we will all hit some sort of wall at some point in our blogging experience, it’s basically like everyday life. But don’t let it get you down, especially if you’re not getting the visitors you think you should be getting, making the money you think you should be making, etc. The harder you work, the better you’ll see the results, you just need to know where to go for resources and learn. Oh, and patience is also key because it does take time.
And yes, blogging, believe it or not, does take a lot of hard work. I didn’t think it was going to when I first started but I didn’t know much about anything. The writing, the constant promoting and marketing, building your readership, interacting everyday, lots and LOTS of reading; I mean, it almost feels like I’m at school all over again.
When it comes down to it, though, out of all the hardships you may experience through blogging, if at the end you still see potential within your own site, then that’s all that matters.
Okay, I should shut up and get to the information that will actually help you further your potential, right? (That’s if you’ve read all the way down to this point).
Well, be yourself and continue to write how you’re going to write. Don’t let people change you. When it comes down to it, if you have an opinion then you will have listeners.
Now, you actually have to find the listeners. Well, a great way is to communicate with fellow bloggers through such sites like Mybloglog, Blogcatalog, and a bunch of blogging forums (which I have compiled a list so you don’t have to look for them).
First, when you meet people, do NOT send generic messages and copy and paste it to every single person. They will know, and more than likely they won’t listen. Also, participate in different discussions, not just the ones that pertain to your niche. Let people hear your voice, the more they hear your opinions, the more they will want to hear your opinions on other things such as, um, your blog!
With the Blogging forums, you can meet new people, build traffic, but most importantly, you can learn. There are tons of people that are willing to help and answer your questions in need. And believe me, blogging will not be the only thing you can learn.
Stay active in the social media and bookmarking sites. The more you Digg, Stumble, Mixx, etc and give your feedback, the more you expose yourself to a wider audience. When you expose yourself, they end up on your blog and then they’ll end up submitting your content to these sites if they like it.
To go along with writing, interacting and marketing, reading a lot is a must. Just think about it like this, other blogs/sites/forums are your daily newspaper, you have to stay updated with the times. And just like staying updated with the times, you will also learn new things that will help further your own potential.
Also, you’ll get the juicy blogger gossip and dirt!
So, all and all, after you hit that wall, that dead end street, and you still manage to see potential within your own site, that’s all that matters. Because if you followed that basic outline I just mentioned, you should definitely succeed, or at least help add flames to that fire of potential.




Hi Jay,
“the moment when a blogger almost want to give up” is so similar to what I felt.
i think ultimately, it is the same in all other endeavors, if you have the passion and the will to believe, then your blog will certainly be successful.
it might not reach the level that you really want (like those of A list probloggers), but it will certainly attain some small successes along the way if you spend time nurturing it
Hey Jay,
I agree with you and bobbyt…about giving up. There have been times when I have been so frustrated, yet I continued. A lot of times I have to get my Bible out and just hold on.
Blogging is like any other business, it takes time.
Good advice Jay, just one point though, there is a point at which you have divorce your blog. Sometimes like maybe many of have. We get an idea for a blog, that well just wont go anywhere, cant be monetized, or many other reasons. It should be dumped and dumped fast.
But yeah on the frustration thing. We all get the grind and the plateau, and the what am I going to talk about. LOL sometimes in more than a few posts I just post off the top of my head. Just to write I know this may be bad blog etiquette Bah Humbug, like you said if you cant be then who can you be eh
It is sometimes hard to stay focus and inspired especially if there are more down than ups. I try my best though and try to keep positive. Thanks for sharing
the potential of what my site could give,, actually, it more of who is the one handling the site.. I wished I have enough time to do all of possibilities as soon as possible
As usual, I feel like you are talking directly to me!! Sometimes I feel stumped, but I know it will pass. I can’t seem to get it through my thick head that networking and joining forums is actually part of the biz. It is too much like fun!! Thanks again Jay!
I definitely see the potential in my blog. The first time I knew I would stick to it was during my second week of blogging. A young woman sent me an email stating that she was sending a resume to one one of the work at home ops I posted. I will always appreciate that email forever, because I felt like I made a small difference for someone. I hope she got the job!